Born in 1977, Jerramy Sage Fine grew up in Western Colorado along with her little brother Ezra. Although she was raised by crazy hippy parents, she still maintains there was a dreadful hospital mix-up and she was switched at birth with the baby daughter of English aristocrats. Jerramy attended the University of Rochester where she spent her semester abroad working in the House of Commons, and later completed her master’s at the London School of Economics. She now lives in London with her English boyfriend. He’s not royal, but she forgives him.
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How did your love for the British royalty begin?
I have no idea. All I know is that it was something I was literally born with. As a toddler I knew right away that the life I had with my hippie parents in Colorado was not for me! (I made it very clear that I wanted a castle, not a cabin. And was certain that my real royal parents would be coming for me any second.) I was describing royal scenes, furniture and places even before I could read. I was also not allowed TV so my ideas definitely came from within. My hippie parents claimed all this was because I was royal in past life – and they’re might be something to that. J But all I know is that my desire to be in England and immerse myself in all things royal is something that nothing short of an exorcism could remove from my heart. Then and now.
What were your favorite fairy tales as a child?
I had a huge obsession with Snow White when I was little. (At one point, I managed to accumulate such a huge collection of Snow White memorabilia that the Denver Children’s Museum put it on display.) I insisted on dressing up as Snow White for Halloween five years in a row, and every day after preschool I’d rush home to listen to my Snow White record on my Fisher Price record player. Don’t forget that back in 1977, there was no such thing as a “Disney Store,” there were no “Princess Collection” aisles filled with everything a little girl like me could only dream of playing with. For my 2nd birthday party, my mom had to scour the party shops to find anything vaguely Snow-White themed and when she finally found plastic Snow White cake-toppers, she thought she had hit the jackpot.( I was so happy, I didn’t even notice that my health nut parents were serving me a sugarless carrot cake with sugarless icing!) I guess you could say that Snow White was my best (albeit imaginary) friend, and whenever I was upset about my non-royal life I would confide in her. My mom said she overheard me all the time, “Snow White,” I would sob, “You are the only one who understands!” (Looking back on it, it makes perfect sense. Snow White was an orphaned princess. And so was I.)
What is the most challenging part of writing a memoir?
Writing is the easy part! Because it’s a true story, the words came easily. But here’s something all those agents and editors don’t prepare you for when writing a memoir: the simple fact that it’s not just the quality of your writing that will be judged by the masses; the quality of your life, your brain, your heart, and your soul will also be put forward to the public as an acceptable punching bag! Even though I got great editorial reviews and endless emails of praise from readers –every now then I’d read something on Goodreads or Amazon that was so cruel, it would knock the wind out of me. (I mean, when someone calls you an alcoholic slut, or a bitch, or expresses a wish to see you hit by a double-decker bus – it’s kind of hard not to take it personally!) Enduring this type of personal attack never once occurred to me when I sat down to write my memoir and as a result, I wrote with honest abandon. What I’ve learned is that while no one can send mean emails to fictional characters that love martinis, they can send mean emails to me – because I am real. On the plus side, 99% of my reader reviews are so wonderful that I cry with happiness to learn I’ve inspired girls to such an extent. But as we all know, it’s easy to forget the good and focus on the bad, and I’ve had to diligently train myself to do the reverse!
Who is your favorite English monarch, past or present? Why?
HM Queen Elizabeth II, of course! She has been Queen since she was 25-years-old and always (always!) puts duty and the nation before herself. Her dedication and selflessness (in a job that she never asked for) is truly inspiring – and even though she is 84 years-old she continues to carry out her public work almost daily – never ever complaining or asking when she is allowed to retire.
What do you think would be the best aspect of royal life?
True royals look beyond themselves in every situation and it is this altruistic aspect of royal life that I’ve always been drawn to. Yes, the palaces and pageantry are fantastic – but it’s the philanthropy and magnified sense of duty that I find truly incredible.
What is the biggest culture shock faux pas you committed while acclimating to English life?
Once I was attending a black-tie ball for a charity that provides cricket equipment to disadvantaged children. (In England it doesn’t matter if the child is starving or homeless, as long as he or she can play cricket.) I was seated at a table of rowdy rugby players and had already swallowed several glasses of champagne before the first course arrived. It was salmon of some kind yet I was so caught up in the ridiculous conversations happening around me (and so hungry as I hadn’t eaten much lunch) that I accidentally used the wrong knife. I quickly spotted my mistake after the first bite and swiftly changed knives, certain no one would notice – least of all the highly inebriated gentlemen on either side of me. How wrong I was. Within seconds, the broad-shouldered, floppy-haired Englishmen to my right was standing up and tapping his spoon on his water glass to get the table’s attention.
“I would like to announce that the lovely American lady to my left has used the wrong knife,” he bellowed. “And for this she must be penalized!”
To atone for my mistake I was forced to chug the rest of my wine, the rest of his wine, and all the remaining wine in the bottle sitting in the center of our table. As you can imagine, I have very little recollection of what happened after that. But let me tell you: I now make a point of paying close attention to the cutlery before each and every course.
Do you have any words of wisdom for people who may be chasing their own fairy tale endings?
Fairytales are real and each of us has the power within us to move beyond our circumstances to something greater. Anything is possible if we believe it, and once you make a decision about something, the entire universe will conspire to help you achieve it. Your childhood dream is the most honest dream you’ll ever have – you should honor it, do your best to indulge it and never let anyone make fun of it.
How did your interest in writing develop?
I’ve always enjoyed writing and I knew that my story was a unique and funny one – with a theme that lots of girls could relate to. There’s lots of negativity and skepticism in the world these days – so most of all, I wanted my book to convey the importance of listening to your heart, holding tight to your childhood dream and believing in the impossible – no matter what those grumpy cynics out in the real world may tell you!
Who are some of your favorite authors? What do you love about them?
Paul Coelho (The Alchemist), Marianne Williamson (A Return to Love), and Garth Stein (Art of Racing in the Rain) – for soul-touching narratives. Nancy Mitford, Evelyn Waugh and PG Woodhouse for pure British wit and aristocratic indulgence.
What is a random fact readers probably don’t know about you?
I secretly love tofu. (Sometimes that hippie upbringing never dies.)
Do you have any plans for future books?
I’ve just finished writing Bright Young Blueboods (a guidebook to all the eligible royals in Europe). Also, Someday My Prince Will Come is currently being developed for TV by ABC Family –which I’m super excited about. See www.jerramyfine.com for more details.
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